Why would a person do this to me?

send some one to follow me so I have this tatoo under another tatoo which you can not see the tatoo that is under the other tatoo, my ex husband didn't even no i had that tatoo and i was with him for 5 years and had 3 children so he would have noticed the tattoo under the other tatoo if it could be seen. anyways so i went out to the clubs one night with my friend and we were at this club and it was darker in there and this guy comes up out of no where and asked me about my tatoo that cant be seen, and i told a few people that I worked with about that tatoo, but the guy that came up to me was not one of the people that i told, anyways so then later that night after me and my friend went to country kitchen to get something to eat and this guy and his friends come in and the one guy asked if he could sit with me and my friend. so anyways why would someone tell other people to do that to me including some of my family members. i had trust issues before this because of my ex husband and i finally get out of a bad relationship from my ex husband where he cheated on me and treated me and our children horribly. and then this other person has people following me and doing stuff like that to me and much more stuff, so now i feel like i can't trust anyone which is not right of you to do that to me. and i want to know the truth, and i have the right to be told the truth about why someone would send other people to follow me. so If the person who is doing this to me reads this please just tell me the truth about it so i can get on with my life and my childrens lifes.